Dear Dr Sabrina,

I have been in a relationship with my partner for five years, and everything seemed perfect. She cooked, cleaned, gave me attention daily. My children even have fallen in love with her. Lately, she has been distant and secretive, always on their phone and avoiding spending time with me. I tried talking to her about it, but she brush it off saying she has just has been busy with work.

However, I have a gut feeling that something is not right. I don't want to jump to conclusions, but I can't shake off this feeling of unease.

So, I am super tired of feeling ignored and feel like I must move on my assumptions. I have put a call into a private investigator to have her followed. Do you think this is a wise next step?

Sincerely,
Troubled in Love