Jealous or Justified is a monthly segment where we ask our readers to analyze the situation of someone who has asked for our help to see if the person is being Jealous or are they Justified in feeling the way they feel.
Please keep in mind that the term “Jealous” can mean many things in the context of this segment. It doesn’t and won’t always mean jealous in its true meaning. Perhaps the person is just in their feeling a bit too much.
I've been dating a beautiful young lady for five months. Everything is going fine. She’s kind and smart, and I’ve been having a great time with her.
I really started thinking very seriously about her. I felt like we could make a good couple.
The one thing that bothered me was that she was always talking about her male best friend. Maybe my thoughts are outdated, but I don’t believe that a man and woman can be just friends.
As a man, I know that a lot of guys play the friend role just waiting for an opportunity to move right in, and frankly, that made me uncomfortable.
On our last date, she told me, 'I tell my best friend everything.' And that changed everything for me. Not only am I uncomfortable with the friendship itself, but I definitely don’t want another man involved in my relationship that way. So, after careful consideration, I ended things with her.
I must admit I miss her. She was great, but I know myself, and that would’ve been the catalyst for a lot of disagreements.
Beautiful machine, I need your help.
Did I do the right thing by ending this budding relationship?
Posted on 04/01/2024 at 10:00 AM